how to tuck safely

so, you’re a trans woman looking for a bra

breast inserts/forms, lingerie, and panties

breast forms

passing tips

cheap high quality makeup

clothing, breast forms and accessories

finding clothes that fit

more passing tips (contains statements which trivialize sexism)

r/abrathatfits (addition suggested by 

if anyone has anymore resources, feel free to reblog and add!

None of these are required to be a trans woman and having difficulty with them or choosing not to do them are OK and valid too. If you don’t pass or don’t want to pass then you are still as valid as a woman who does. If you’re not interested in wearing makeup, or you don’t bother with breast-forms and/or tucking, then that’s fine and doesn’t make you any less valid. I’ve included these things not because trans women should do them, but because many of us want to. If these don’t apply to you, that’s fine too and you’re still wonderful.